Posts in Presence
How to stop screwing yourself over

Did you know that the odds of you being born - You, at the moment in time you were born, to the parents you were born to, with your unique DNA structure, is 1 in 400 trillion! Imagine that! 1: 400,000,000,000,000 - that's A LOT of zeros.

So what does this mean for you?

It means that your very existence is EXTRAORDINARY. You are already enough by the very nature of your presence. So my question to you then is this...

Are you living up to that legacy? Do you feel that your potential in life, love, and leadership is being tapped into? Or you are 'waiting for a better time' - when the kids are grown, when you have more money, when life isn't so busy. when you know more. when you're 'more' ready. 

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How I Created My Dream Life in Less Than 3 Years

I am often asked how I moved back to the United States from Nicaragua with...

  • less than $1,000 to my name
  • no home (just a car I was borrowing)
  • a history of troubled relationships
  • and only one suitcase of belongings


Then, in less than 3 years I created...

  • an extraordinary love relationship that lights me up every day
  • work in the world that I am deeply passionate about and that affords me a financially stress-free lifestyle I love
  • a home/office that feels like a dream (in my dream neighborhood, just blocks from the ocean)
  • and I am continuing to grow, contribute, and celebrate in new and exciting ways every year.
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The Truth About Happiness (that no one is talking about)

"When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life" - John Lennon

 

I came across this quote recently and it got me thinking...

 

It got me thinking about the truth, that at the core of every goal and every desire, what we are all really after - is happiness

 

In fact, so often where busy, driven professionals and visionaries lose this connection, is that they focus on what they think will bring them happiness (a means to end goal) rather than the end goal itself. 

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How To Become Truly Present To All Life Has To Offer

On our path towards our desires, dreams, and a life fully lived - the goal is presence (not joy) along the journey. Presence will summon life force and truly 'life summoning through you is what it's all about." Sometimes presence will feel ecstatic and joyful and sometimes it will feel brutal and painful. To allow both the beauty and the brutality of humanity to be felt is to be truly deeply intimate with yourself and others and is the only path I have witnessed to living a truly full(filled) life.

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